Destroying Our Perceptions of What Women “Should” Look Like
But sometimes, our expectations for women contradict, creating a tension between conflicting desires. Women are expected often to be demure, to be quiet, though at the same time then exuding passion through sex. There also exist contradictory ideas about beauty, whether it be skinniness or big breasts or big hips, whatever. People will also expect you to be something, bigger, smaller, smarter, taller, with better teeth. In the end, it’s pointless to actually cater to these expectations.
Therefore, I encourage all women to “fuck what I want.” Just stop caring about what I think women should look like or act like or be like, because I’m not the one living your life, you are. Or what anyone thinks, honestly, because it will just make you miserable, considering the fact that it will be impossible to live up to men’s expectations.
This is the simple message in this poem, which I performed
Posted on June 21, 2014, in books, feminism, Poems, Poetry, Writing and tagged Derek Berry, feminism, Gender Expectations, I Want a Woman, MAD Studios, poem, poetry, slam, society's expectations for women, spoken word, The Heathens and Liars of Lickskillet County, word salad, writing. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.